Dorset, I wasn't so much interested in the 'talking bollocks' stuff as in a pub or a forum's bar. I get that.
I was curious to your "people have to earn my respect" comment which essentially means "I don't respect you upon meeting you". That's the essence of the discussion. It's not that I don't respect your view. I just don't get why someone would take that approach. Just trying to understand.
I'm far from being a choirboy or a Buddhist but my view of this is that when I meet someone for the first time, I don't know their story. I don't know where they come from or how they got here. But I'll give them the benefit of the doubt by respecting them first. How they come across after that & how I interpret it drives the story from there. I may or may not like what I see or hear, but I will continue to be respectful even if I dislike the person. That's just my upbringing & I've yet to become jaded by life.
In a previous post, you spoke of me having a morally superior attitude. That's your view. It's OK.
What I'll say next is by no means me trying to take a shot at you. Just an observation.
Stop and take a look at how you appear to others through your comments..
The message I'm getting from you is that your view is:
"I don't care who you are. Impress me & then, & only then, I'll give you my respect" as if others have to jump through your perceived important hoops & barrels for acceptance (is dignity &/or even kindness included in your greeting package?). So, in this light, who has the appearance of a superiority complex? And I'm not saying this in a mean-spirited way. I just don't agree with it &
I don't think you are like that either. I sense that in some of your other posts & I let you know that in a PM a few days ago. You have the benefit of wisdom through years & experience. If I'm wrong, let me know (or "have it" in whatever manner you choose

) I'm a big boy.
Anyway, I appreciate you taking the time to respond once again. By doing so, I have a better understanding as you cleared a few things up & in a respectful way. I appreciate that.
We're on a forum here. It's all based on discussion.
Peace & Cheers.
PS my apologies if this is derailing your thread.